Two pearls of wisdom were given to me this week from a very unexpected place.  A middle aged chinese lady who gave me a massage .

I was talking to her about being in my 30’s, single and yet to decide whether I want children in my life or if it will happen for me.  She told me two things during that massage.

1) “You are not letting the old out, I can feel it in you.  Let the old out, all the tension, otherwise there is no room to let the new in.”

2) ” You are too busy in this life, too many exciting things to do, too busy, save having children for the next life maybe, no worry, next life be ok”.

What a nice lady!  She’s completely right too.  Just what I needed to hear, from a very unexpected place.

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